{"id":199,"date":"2011-03-07T13:19:31","date_gmt":"2011-03-07T17:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/?p=199"},"modified":"2020-04-13T13:51:40","modified_gmt":"2020-04-13T17:51:40","slug":"aftermath-radio-stages-of-the-aftermath","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/2011\/03\/07\/aftermath-radio-stages-of-the-aftermath\/","title":{"rendered":"Aftermath Radio: Stages of the Aftermath"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_201\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-201\" style=\"width: 140px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/babiak-150x150.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-201\" title=\"babiak-150x150\" src=\"http:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/babiak-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-201\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Paul Babiak, Ph.D. Vice President, Board of Directors, Aftermath: Surviving Psychopathy Foundation<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dr. Paul Babiak, Industrial and Organizational Psychologist and author of the book, <em>Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Go to Work<\/em>, discusses the stages that victims go through in the aftermath of relationships with psychopathic individuals.<\/p>\n<p>In our increasingly-popular \u201cAftermath Radio Q and A\u201d segment, we answered questions from caller Jane in the UK about jails versus prisons, and noncriminal psychopaths (Dr. Schug discussed Truman Capote as a possible example, based on information presented in Ellsworth Lapham Fersch\u2019s book of case studies in psychopathy). We also spoke again with a survivor named Sally, who discussed the various stages of her own aftermath.<\/p>\n<p>According to Dr. Babiak, the victim\u2019s relationship with the psychopath progresses through the following stages:<\/p>\n<p>Stage 1: Temptation<\/p>\n<p>Stage 2: Psychopathic Bonding<\/p>\n<p>Stage 3: Collusion in the Psychopath\u2019s Game<\/p>\n<p>Stage 4: Self-Doubt and Denial<\/p>\n<p>Stage 5: Abusive Manipulation<\/p>\n<p>Once in the Aftermath, the victim will experience these stages:<\/p>\n<p>Stage 6: Realization<\/p>\n<p>Stage 7:\u00a0Shame<\/p>\n<p>Stage 8:\u00a0Anger and Vindication<\/p>\n<p>Stage 9:\u00a0Release, Repair, and Re-growth<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr. Paul Babiak, Industrial and Organizational Psychologist and author of the book, Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Go to Work, discusses the stages that victims go through in the aftermath of relationships with psychopathic individuals. In our increasingly-popular \u201cAftermath Radio Q and A\u201d segment, we answered questions from caller Jane in the UK about jails &#8230; <a title=\"Aftermath Radio: Stages of the Aftermath\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/2011\/03\/07\/aftermath-radio-stages-of-the-aftermath\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Aftermath Radio: Stages of the Aftermath\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,1,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-199","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business_and_organization","category-family_relationships","category-intimate_relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/199","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=199"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/199\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":820,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/199\/revisions\/820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=199"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=199"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/radio\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=199"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}